Welcoming a new baby is a big adjustment for older siblings. During a newborn session, it’s important to make them feel just as special as the baby. Here are some simple ways to keep big brothers and sisters engaged, comfortable, and excited to participate.
1. Set Expectations Before the Session
Talk to your child about what will happen during the session. Let them know they’ll have time to take pictures with the baby, but they’ll also get breaks to play or relax. Keep things low-pressure so they don’t feel forced into anything.
2. Let Them Warm Up
Some kids jump right in, while others need time to adjust. I always start with a few relaxed family shots so siblings can ease into the session naturally. We also don’t start shooting as soon as you walk into the studio. I start with small talk with both parents and big siblings.
3. Keep It Fun and Interactive
Instead of stiff poses, I encourage movement and play. Tickling baby’s toes, giving gentle hugs, or whispering a secret to the baby can lead to the sweetest moments.
4. Bring a Special Item
If the older sibling has a favorite stuffed animal, blanket, or book, let them bring it along. It can add a personal touch to the photos and help them feel more comfortable.
5. Keep Snacks and Breaks Handy
Kids have short attention spans, and that’s okay! A quick snack or break can make a big difference in keeping them happy and engaged. I also keep some fun (not so messy) treats in the studio, if needed.
6. Let Them “Help”
Giving older siblings a little job—like holding the baby’s tiny hand or helping adjust a blanket—makes them feel important and involved.
7. Embrace the Imperfections
Not every sibling moment will be perfectly posed, and that’s part of the magic. The best photos come from real interactions, whether it’s a sweet cuddle or a goofy giggle.
Including big siblings in a newborn session isn’t just about the photos—it’s about making them feel valued in this new chapter of life. When they feel special, it shines through in the images.
Including big siblings in a newborn session creates beautiful memories for the whole family. With a little preparation and patience, these sessions can be fun, natural, and meaningful. As an Indianapolis newborn baby photographer, I love capturing the sweet bond between new babies and their older siblings. If you’re expecting and want a session that includes the whole family, I’d love to help create images you’ll treasure forever.
